A little wedding humor

Attending a wedding for the first time, a little girl whispered to her mother, 'Why is the bride dressed in white?'  The mother replied, 'Because white is the color of happiness, and today is the happiest day of her life.'  The child thought about this for a moment and then said, 'So why is the groom wearing black?'

I got a chuckle out of this, and then began wondering why so many Mothers wear black to the wedding?  Do they know something?  I have met many Mothers (and Fathers) over the twelve years I have been performing wedding ceremonies.  They mostly keep their comments to themselves, but some can be quite vocal.  That is the value of having a trusted professional conduct your rehearsal and ceremony.  We are used to handling "problem" guests and commanding respect for the Couple and their Special Day.

I have had to deal with bridal parties who celebrated too much at the rehearsal dinner the night before, flowergirls and ringbearers who refuse to walk down the aisle, parents and stepparents who don't want to be in the same room with each other, florists who don't show up, inclement weather, forgotten rings, and MUCH, MUCH more...and all with a smile on my face.  It's grace under fire!  Every situation was resolved diplomatically.  After all, the show must go on!